Oh my lord Jesus! I cannot wait to go off on this 4 day weekend extravaganza to Vegas with me, myself and I and a couple of friends. No Husband, no baby crawling on me, and I mean literally crawling. My son is 20 months now and he thinks I am a jungle gym, equipped with handle bars (my boobs and ears), and shiny things to swirl and pull on at times (my earrings, bracelets or necklaces). I love it don’t get me wrong. It’s nothing like coming home from work and having a smiling face run to you, but it can seriously way on you, and tire you out. No sippy cups, bottles or breakfast, lunch and dinners to make. No vacuuming, dusting, dishes, etc. to do. No work to think about. No having myself being pulled in a million different directions, and then at the end of the day, begging for any type of intimate attention from my husband. Yes you read that correctly. Usually women are complaining about having to do so much stuff during the day, and being so tired, then being happy to lay down and finally get some rest only to have their husband pulling on nightgowns for some nooky. I wish my husband did that! With his lazy ass. Yes, followers! I told you it was going to start getting a little personal and juicy. So cover your eyes if you don’t want to read it. I love my husband, and he’s alright. Lately I’ve had to make myself learn to appreciate him more, but since we had our son, and probably before than, this department has seriously been lacking, and I tell you its not because my son still sleeps with us. There are other places to go you know! Its also not because I’m always angry with him, cause the last 3 months I have seriously changed! Its not like I haven’t been trying you know. He doesn’t turn me down. That is not the case at all. It’s just why do I always have to initiate? He is just so damn lazy! What do you think?
We went through it too. I think it's called, "settled into marriage" - & hubbies think they don't have to work anymore! In my case, I want it - he's passed out - just tired, not drunk :) And when he wants it, I'm too tired to move. It's much different when the kids are at Grandma's, though! It's gotta get better, right? Like when the kids leave for college?!?
ReplyDeletelol don't ask me, i'llsee if i can find Bess. we got plan we use the honor system.
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honor and offer
I went through that one...now though since we are separated..be happy for what you do get..also have you told him about how you feel about having to initiate...girl i have so much to fill you in on..we def need a mommies night out
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